Assalamualaikum. So i've read a post by blogger, Aiman Azlan. Such a sweet and inspirable post.
You can read the full post here >> Aiman Azlan : A Letter From Single Aiman to Married Aiman
"There are some good advises in his letter which are not just good for married people, but also applicable to all people. Yes, they are like a universal advises."
"Don’t expect uniformity. Uniformity doesn’t lead to unity. Diversity leads to unity and Islam celebrates diversity, but with limits."
"Be a leader, not a dictator."
"Know that both of you are on the same team, so don’t think about winning or losing. Use the Quran and the Sunnah as a guide, not as a weapon to bring the other down."
"They (kids) learn mostly from your actions, not from your words. So pay closer attention to what you do than what you say. They will always look to you for examples, so be the best example that you can be."
"In general, know that you will make mistakes. You are not perfect. But when you do make mistakes, please own up to them. Don’t let your pride and ego get in the way. If you know that you are wrong, admit it first and foremost to yourself. Don’t lie to yourself. Don’t try to justify yourself with lame excuses. If you’re wrong, admit it. Learn from mistakes, grow, and move on."
"Be open to change. You’re not perfect. You don’t know everything. There’s always something new to learn. Something new to improve."
"Find the good in people. Everyone has flaws; you wife has flaws and your kids have flaws. You have flaws. But choose to focus on the good and always mention the good, and seek to improve the not-so-good."
"Don’t judge other people, judge only yourself. You don’t know the condition of people’s hearts. What you see with your eyes is not the whole story, so leave the judging part to Allah."
"Hate the wrong actions that people do. Don’t hate the people that are doing it."
"Be the solution, not the problem. Know that the most valuable things in life are not things."
- Aiman Azlan.
*muhasabah diri juga*
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