a reminder to self and you

Things do get complicated.

Life is not easy, not all the time

It's not every time and everything about being so lucky. 

It's not that God doesn't love us.

And,

Everyone needs to face test.  

Because we will never know how is it like to feel Beyond happy if we never know understand what is pain.

No. Life is Fair. People Not. Allah is fair, because HE loves us no matter what.

Not Everyone is going to love us. Understand us. Think Good about us. Be there for us all the time.

To be honest, we can't do that too. There's always a fight between nafs and Iman.

Do the best. Remember Allah. Please Lord , prevent us from any maksiat or evil on earth.

Eyes, Mouth, Ears , Nose, Hands, Legs, Mind, Heart.

Everything.

Things Just Happen.Yes some hurt . But that's the purpose. As that's how we learn to appreciate.

People , and what we have.

Don't over think and keep counting what we don't have and what people have.

Some people do have it because, that what's best for them. There's always the best for us.

What we have today.

As how we see we have weakness. So does anybody else.

As how we see people have specialness. So do us.

Destiny , Taqdir . Yes Allah has written it for us.

But, it's actually what path do we choose. How we handle things.

What decision we made.

People can talk. people can say.

But it's our Amanah to takecare of what Allah has given, we are just borrowing.

Our job to take care of ourselves. The best as we can to prevent Fitna, to people. to us.

Do the best, let Allah settle the rest.

Obviously, shaytan is everywhere. Nafs is always in our heart. Anyone's heart.

So we actually can't stop people from thinking/talking negatively.

But always, keep people's aib. Allah will keep our 'aib, in this world and InshaaAllah HereAfter.

BUT

As long as we breath, it's never too late to turn back, to HIM.

As long as the heart beats, there's always a chance.

It's okay. HE knows.

We cry, we get mad, we feel extremely insane. Mixed Feelings.

It's okay. We ARE human.

and guess what? TURN BACK TO HIM. Regardless time, place.

Be nice. Be good. Nothing to lose.

HE shall give the best. To you, me, us.

Hold On. Keep praying. When the time comes,

MIRACLE HAPPENS.

Love, Dena

"Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah."[ Surah Al-'Imran ; 159 ]

And one thing , I remind self everyday, If everything is easy, it's not LIFE

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Diwan oleh SyauqahWardah

Assalamualaikum w.b.t


Wahai orang yang putus asa,
Mati sahajalah kau sebelum mati,
Atau tetaplah bertahan hidup,
Maka,
Engkau masih mempunyai harapan.
Tidakkah engkau tahu,
Bahawa kesulitan itu,
Pasti akan diiringi dengan kemudahan,
Sebagaimana kesabaran,
Diiringi dengan jalan keluar dari kesulitan?
Dan tiada satu kesusahan pun,
Melainkan pasti akan ada akhirnya,
Dan tiada suatu keadaan pahit pun,
Yang dialami oleh seseorang,
Melainkan akan datang sesudahnya,
Keadaan lain yang manis...' ;)

petikan dari : syauqahwardah1209.blogspot.com

Timbang Berat Blog

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Hari ini banyak kali buka blog tapi tak tahu nak update apa . Lepas tu mula la view blog sendiri dan syok sendiri tengok blog dengan background bintang purple ni .

Nak update , nak update . Takde idea , takde idea .

Last-last tengok blog orang lain jumpa tutorial blog . Hurm , mcm nak buat  . . .  Adakah saya akan buat apa-apa perubahan pada blog saya ? Jeng jeng jeng . . .

Adakah anda lihat apa-apa perubahan pada blog saya ? Tidak kan ? So , memang tak buat la . Sebab ? Senag je . M to the A to the L to the A to the S >> MALAS !  *muahahahaha*

Okay , stop it . Then saya jumpa satu link "bagaimana nak timbang berat blog" . Ok , dah lama blog saya tak ditimbang *tuan dia pun sama hihi* . Well , Let us see berapa sudah berat blog saya . Saya pernah baca blog yg bagus beratnya tak melebihi 100kb .

so , ni berat ideal ke tak ni ??

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Berjaya Times Square

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Have an outing with mama and siblings at Berjaya Times Square , and ayah wasn't with us as he had to go to meet his friends . Our first plan was to watch movie "Budak Pailang" and the second plan , the place we are going to watch movie must have a play park so that Syamirul and Ain can have their real fun . Wangsa Walk was our first choice . But then , when looked at the movie timetable , it doesn't suite us . So , here we are , at Berjaya Times Square , Jalan Imbi , Kuala Lumpur .

I was like , why I felt like first time come to this place . Ouh sure , this is the first time I enter Time Square from the main entrance . Usually , I (and my friends) entered from the train entrance/exit . I felt like lostgirl too . Huhuhu .

Ouh , then we had our first plan cancelled , so go on with the second plan . So my brother and sister had their fun at the Times Square Theme Park . Me ? Thanks la, i have enough with the theme park before . No , not that i don't want to spent the fun time with them , it just i don't feel want to . Mama also not joined them . While Syamirul and Ain have their adventurous and fun time , I have a not-so-window shopping with Mama . She bought a new handbag , a nice pink one .

and me , bought something , celak . made of 7kind of nuts in Iran . Ouuuu~~ Niiiceee. The , err.. what we call like celak box ? or celak case ? oh whatever , they are so cute . So we bought 2 ^^,

cute isn't ? the red flower pattern is mine ,
the blue flower pattern is Mama's .
the glass contain the celak powder .

ouh , hye . these are my eyes after few hours applied with the celak .
i'm not sure if you can see the celak i wore ,
but i like the black colour of the celak .
ouh , so long since last time i wore celak :3

ouh , check these out what we found when we're leaving the Times Square . it was Maaaaazdaaaaa . Yes , Mazda RX-8 you know . . .

Mazda RX-8 , always in my heart <3

ouh , look , it is Audi ! not sure what model it is . look so handsome :3

also got red Ferrari and black Audi , but couldn't take their picture .



ok la , till then . Fi Aman Allah :)

greedy story : Nokia vs Samsung

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Say hi to my new phone ;) Yes I am currently using Samsung GT-I8150 Galaxy Wonder .

*source : google image*

Actually , it was my Father's phone , but as he is now have a new 'baby' , his old 'baby' had been given to me . My brother and sister got really jealous :P
Then , Mama told me i have to give my Nokia N97mini to my younger sister . And i was like .. :O
No way ! That little baby of mine , i don't have the heart to let it go . Yes , it have been months i do not switch it on as it was like "corrupt"?? , i still love her (the N97) :'( and and and . .  it's not so fair , because she is 9years old , why use phone that is so canggih -.-" , while me first time to use phone when i was 12years old , and i shared the phone with Mama . So unfair =______=
I did planned to send it to the Nokia Centre , get it fixed then use it ! Yeay ! :D

But now , i have to make an option between my favourite 'baby' or the new 'baby' before the Semester 2 class start . Boooooooo ;(

Nokia N97mini in the copper / chromium colour is exactly like mine .
The white one is Nokia N97-01

reason why i love her so much is this .

*source of both image : google image*

 well , inilah kisah orang tamak  (eyh , bahasa melayu tetiba) . Wassalam , Fi Aman Allah .

Prof. Dr Muhaya Mohamad

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Saya ingin bercerita mengenai salah seorang tokoh yang bertakhta di hati saya , yang senantiasa memberikan saya semangat dengan kata-kata positifnya , malah ramai lagi . Beliau adalah Prof. Dr. Muhaya Mohamad .

 

Nama penuh beliau adalah Muhaya binti Mohamad Busu .
Dilahirkan di Kuala Terengganu pada tahun 1959 , merupakan anak sulung dari empat beradik .
Beliau telah berkahwin dengan Dr Azmi Jamion dan dikurnakan dua orang anak , iaitu Dr Noor Aniah dan Dr Noor Atiyah .
Beliau merupakan bekas pelajar perubatan dengan kelulusan Ijazah Pertama Perubatan dan kemudian Sarjana Perubatan Optomologi di Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia (UKM) . Di UKM , beliau turut menerima Anugerah Toh Puan Rahah pada tahun 1982 kerana pencapaian cemerlang dalam akademik dan personaliti .
Beliau turut menyambung pelajaran di peringkat Sarjana Perubatan di Singapura , Fellowship Royal College of Surgeon FRCS di Edinburgh dan menjadi doktor pakar .
Beliau mendapat Fellowship in Uveitis (Hospital Mata Moorfields UK) pada 1998 dan melanjutkan pelajaran di peringkat PhD dalam Okular Immunology di London .

Prof. Dr Muhaya Mohamad kini bertugas sebagai Perunding Pakar Bedah Mata dan Ketua Pusat Mata dan Lasik di Pusat Perubatan Prince Court ; Profesor Oftalmologi di Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia ; Profesor Tambahan di Universiti Islam Malaysia (UIA) .

Beliau merupakan anak Malaysia terunggul yang pakar dalam bidang Uveitis serta merupakan orang pertama Asia Tenggara memperkenalkan kaedah termoden memanfaatkan teknik pembedahan tanpa pisau sepenuhnya .

Pada tahun 2005 , beliau pernah dianugerahkan "Special Distinguished Service Award" oleh Akademi Oftalmologi Asia Pasifik (APAO) semasa Kongres ke-20 APAO di Kuala Lumpur .

Malah beliau pernah menyandang jawatan Pengerusi Oftalmologi Persatuan Perubatan Malaysia (Malaysian Medical Association Ophtalmological Society)

Beliau kini menulis beberapa buah buku motivasi dan panduan , memiliki program bual bicara sendiri iaitu "Dari Mata ke Hati" di Astro dan di saluran radio IKIM, serta menjadi jemputan ke program-program lain .

sumber :

# http://drmuhaya.com                               

# http://drmuhayalasik.blogspot.com            

# http://nurulsyazwinkhudzir96.blogspot.com

# http://www.hmetro.com.my                     

the lucky unlucky

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Today my PSPM 1 examination had over ! Alhamdulillah yeay ! My last paper was Chemistry and I felt like the heavy burden had gone out flew to anyhwere else .
By the way , good luck to dear Eleena , Anis and Acik for tomorrow paper which is Physics , and to Amalina too who is going to take exam of Business . I believed that four of you can do it ! Chaiyok Chaiyok !

Ouh , Najihah (my roommate) just can't stop thinking about watching movies since very morning before our Chemistry examination started ! Ahaha , Jiha Jiha . . .
But for me , everything ain't settled yet . It is the . . . . (drum rolling) . . . M.U.E.T . muahahahaha

By the way , I have took some movies to be watch during my holidays . I just can't stop thinking to watch them with my young brother and sister .
I have like , "John Carter" , "Adam&Hawa" , "Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs" , "Prince of Tennis" , "Al-Hijab" (my mom would love to watch this one!) , "Suck Seed" , "8 Jam" , "Anastasia" , "Dragon Ball the Movie" (Malay Language) , "Spongebob the Movie" , "Step  Up3" , "The Smurfs" . Also got "3 Idiots" but with no subtitle , so it's okay , I've watched it before , tettt .
Got jealous already ? Please don't . Yet . Ahahaha :P
Later want to take few movies from Anis , Sulaiman and Akmal (Anis's classmates) . Ok , you may jealous then . Hohohoho .

Wanie already went back home after the Chemistry Paper 1 in the evening . She is a PDT (Program 2 Tahun) student , no need to stay for preparing  for MUET like the PST students does . Her MUET test is in her 3rd semester . Plus , she's not taking the Physics examination tomorrow too like the other PDT students who are in Modul 1 and 2 . So lucky that girl have a 3weeks holiday, got jealous -,-

But we the AP3-T2-05 roommates did planned for outing on Wednesday , watching movies ! Yes , I did told you "MOVIES" , with capital letter S at the end of the word . They are planning of movies marathon , like watching 3movies non-stop . As usual , Jiha would love to watch HORROR MOVIE . And Wanie and Anis like , "Okay , we don't mind" , and I was like "Errr.. Horror movie , again ?" =___________=
So , if I have Mom's permission and Allah will our planned , then Wanie going to pick us at KMS in the morning with her very new maroon Myvi . Uhuhu , congrats Wanie ! and lucky us for no need to rent car , again .

wajib & sunnah

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Kadangkala kita melakukan kewajipan atas keterpaksaan dalam diam kerna ia wajib , atau mungkin kerana malu dgn makhluk Allah yg lain (naudzubillah) .
Namun biarlah pada awal ibadah ia dilakukan atas keterpaksaan , berdoalah dan mohon pada Allah , suatu hari nanti hati kita akan ikhlas melaksanakan sesuatu ibadah , kerana mencari kerdhaan-Nya semata-mata , tanpa kita sedari .

Sunnah Nabi Muhammad S.A.W adalah salah satu "kenangan" yg Baginda S.A.W berikan kepada kita .Sunnah bermaksud perkataan atau perbuatan yg dilakukan Baginda S.A.W . Bukanlah suatu kewajipan yg wajib kita laksanakan , namun apabila dilakukan dgn hati yg ikhlas , rela dan sepenuh hati , adalah bukti kecintaan kita kepada Baginda S.A.W .
Malah Baginda S.A.W pernah bersabda , "Barangsiapa yg tidak mengikuti walau satu sunnahku , maka dia bukan tergolong dari ummatku ."
Dan Allah berfirman , "Sesiapa yg mencintai Rasul , maka dia mencintai Aku" .

Bukan sesukar mahupun seberat mana pun sunnah baginda S.A.W . Banyak sunnah Baginda S.A.W yg boleh dipraktikkan dlm kehidupan seharian kita . Antara yg pertama , makan menggunakan tangan kanan , kemudian pula menggunakan 3jari sahaja , sesudah makan menjilat jari bermula dengan jari kelingking . Mungkin ada yg kata , susah nak makan dgn 3jari sahaja , dah tu makan pun habis lambat . Aha , zaman Nabi S.A.W dahulu , Baginda makan roti , kurma dan susu (yg saya tahu) , dengan jumlah yg sederhana . Cuba bandingkan kita zaman kini , makan nasi jumlahnya pula bukan main mcm nak makan dua orang . Nabi galakkan ummatnya bersederhana walau dalam keadaan apa pun .

Yang kedua , melangkah masuk ke dalam sesebuah tempat dgn kaki kanan dan melangkah keluar dgn kaki kiri . TETAPI , tandas pula sebaliknya , iaitu melangkah masuk dgn kaki kiri dan melangkah keluar dgn kaki kanan (:

Yang ketiga , senyum . Senyum adalah sedekah kpd mana-mana insan yg mendapat senyuman ikhlas daripada kita itu . Sesiapa pun boleh bersedekah . Walaupun seseorang tak kaya , Allah telah kurniakan dia nikmat yg boleh dia hulurkan kpd orang lain sepanjang masa tanpa kekurangan apa-apa pun . Sungguh Maha Pemurah kan Pencipta kita ?

Kalau nak ditulis sunnah-sunnah Rasulullah S.A.W , sebenarnya banyak tak terhingga . Tak susah mana pun , ada hikmah secara lahiriah , jasmani , rohani dan emosi . Yang penting mendekatkan diri kita lebih lagi kpd Allah S.W.T dan Rasulullah S.A.W .


p/s : ini pertama kali saya tulis rencana berkonsepkan kerohanian / keagamaan di mana saya tulis berdasarkan pengetahuan dan pendapat saya . Maaf seandainya ilmu yg dikongsi ini tak mencukupi bagi pembaca . Salah silap dalam penulisan saya harap sudi maafkan , dan sila komen untuk berkongsi , menambah atau membetulkan pendapat saya . terima kasih , wassalam (:

meminta ampun . . .

Assalamualaikum w.b.t .

My final examination of this semester is coming to its end . Later , after 4days of my last PSPM 1 paper which is Chemistry Paper 1 and Paper 2 , I'll be taking on MUET Examination of Writing / Listening / Reading on 10November 2012 .
Then , 2weeks holiday spending luxurious and precious time with my parents and siblings . Ouh Allah, I just can't wait for it!

Lately , I have been quite less-spirited . Not because of the examination actually . It was something else , someone . Ya Allah , please gave me strength to face it. . .

At first , I want to seek apologize from Nur Eleena Nadhirah bt Pa'at . I am sorry for creating unexpected conflict between us . It was my fault dear , I failed to manage my own emotion and stress . Ouh , Eleena , I really miss you . Since we both got enrolled into different matriculation college , we never met up .
Ok , well . Let's count , it was like 5months5days13hours16minutes = 159days13hours16minutes = 3829hours16minutes = 229756 minutes when I was typing down this calculations .

Second , I am sorry , Nur Amalina bt Abdul Rashid for not always being with you or often meet you or have lunch with you although we are in the same college .

Third , i am sorry to Nur Aqma Nazriena bt Ahmad Nazri , Nur Syazni bt Puteh , Nurina bt Mohd Suhuli and Iza Natasha bt Azahar . I am sorry for not always texting nor calling you . I hope we were meant to meet during my semester holiday or whenever Allah will . Aamin ..

Nah , below are the screenshots of my Science Computer's Lab Practical , creating website . I have tried to upload the website I created to the Internet , but still can't . So , I decided to just upload the screenshots . Have a look , teeheee ..

(ada webpages untuk setiap family member , but i skipped it , hehe)

(photo gallery pun i skipped the screenshot , the page is too long)

Sekian . . . Wassalam . Fi aman Allah ;)

Feeling Tired of These

kadang kala aku berasa penat dengan semua ini .
kadang kala aku berasa perlu untuk aku berhenti .
kadang kala aku berasa betapa palsunya hidup aku dan hidup  mereka !

manusia .
makhluk ciptaan Allah yang paling sukar difahami . walaupun kajian dibuat ke atas manusia untuk berpuluh-puluh tahun sekalipun . keputusan kajian tak mungkin akan kekal sama . suatu hari nanti hipotesis pasti akan ditolak .

manusia .
hidup ini boleh jadi mudah , boleh jadi sukar .
dengan faktor diri kita , orang sekeliling , diri kita dan diri kita .

kenapa nak rumitkan kehidupan yang sudah pun mencabar .
cukuplah Allah sahaja yang memberi kita dugaan .
kenapa tidak permudahkan kehidupan orang lain .
kenapa semakin merumitkan kehidupan orang lain . 

manusia . kau sungguh leceh .

bukankah kejujuran itu suatu keutamaan ?
kenapa perlu pendamkan ?
kenapa perlu nak menjaga hati ?
sedangkan tanpa kejujuran , boleh membawa kepada kesan lebih buruk daripada berkata benar tapi pahit .
aku mengerti  akan manusia yang terlalu memikirkan hati orang lain .
terlalu menjaga hati insan lain , dan
jauh di benak hatinya sedar atau tidak ,
hatinya merintih untuk dipedulikan semula .

wahai manusia ,
usah pendamkan , usah seksa hatimu .
kelak apabila kau tak mampu bertahan .
bukan dirimu sahaja yang kau lukai ,
insan lain juga akan terkena tempiasnya .

manusia . walau banyak mana pun ilmu kau cari , kau takkan mampu bertahan di dunia ini sebenarnya .
asalkan , kau laksanakan sesuatu kerana Allah , insya-Allah Dia akan permudahkan segalanya yang kita anggap adalah berat .

janganlah kau lakukan sesuatu di atas dunia ini untuk mendapatkannya .
lakukankannya untuk bekalan akhirat .
Lillahi Ta'ala .


*must wake up from this fantasy , it's drowning me down , far from The Almighty*

Gadis , Wanita , Perempuan . . .

1. Pada suatu ketika di Madinah, Rasulullah s.a.w. keluar mengiringi jenazah. Baginda dapati beberapa orang wanita dalam majlis tersebut. Lalu Baginda bertanya, “Adakah kamu menyembahyangkan mayat?” Jawab mereka,“Tidak”.

Sabda Baginda, “Seeloknya kamu sekalian tidak perlu ziarah dan tidak ada pahala bagi kamu. Tetapi tinggallah di rumah dan berkhidmatlah kepada suami nescaya pahalanya sama dengan ibadat kaum orang lelaki.”

2. Wanita yang memerah susu binatang dengan ‘Bismillah’ akan didoakan oleh binatang itu dengan doa keberkatan.

3. Wanita yang menguli tepung gandum dengan ‘Bismillah’, Allah akan berkatkan rezekinya.

4. Wanita yang menyapu lantai dengan berzikir akan mendapat pahala seperti menyapu lantai di Baitullah ( Kaabah).

5. “Wahai Fatimah, untuk setiap wanita yang mengeluarkan peluh ketika membuat roti, Allah akan membinakan 7 parit di antara dirinya dengan api neraka, jarak di antara parit itu ialah sejauh langit dan bumi.”

6. “Wahai Fatimah, bagi setiap wanita yang memintal benang, Allah akan mencatatkan untuknya perbuatan baik sebanyak utas benang yang dibuat dan memadamkan seratus perbuatan jahat.”

7. “Wahai Fatimah, untuk setiap wanita yang menganyam akan benang dibuatnya, Allah telah menentukan satu tempat khas untuknya di atas tahta di hari akhirat.”

8. “Wahai Fatimah, bagi setiap wanita yang memintal benang dan kemudian dibuat pakaian untuk anak-anaknya maka Allah akan mencatit baginya ganjaran sama seperti orang yang memberi makan kepada 1000 orang lapar dan memberi pakaian kepada 1000 orang yang tidak berpakaian.”

9. “Wahai Fatimah, bagi setiap wanita yang meminyakkan rambut anaknya, menyikatnya, mencuci pakaian mereka dan mencuci akan diri anaknya itu, Allah akan mencatatkan untuknya pekerjaan baik sebanyak helai rambut mereka dan memadamkan sebanyak itu pula pekerjaan jahat dan menjadikan dirinya kelihatan berseri di mata orang-orang yang memerhatikannya.”

10. Sabda Nabi s.a.w. : “Ya Fatimah setiap wanita meminyakkan rambut dan janggut suaminya, memotong misai dan mengerat kukunya, Allah akan memberi minum kepadanya dari sungai-sungai serta diringankan Allah baginya sakaratul maut dan akan didapatinya kuburnya menjadi sebuah taman daripada taman-taman syurga dan dicatatkan Allah baginya kelepasan dari api neraka dan selamatlah ia melintas Titian Shiratul Mustaqim.”

11. Jika suami mengajarkan atau menerangkan kepada isterinya satu masalah agama atau dunia dia akan mendapat pahala 80 tahun ibadat.

12. Wanita yang menyebabkan suaminya keluar dan berjuang ke jalan Allah dan kemudian menjaga adab rumahtangganya akan masuk syurga 500 tahun lebih awal daripada suaminya, akan menjadi ketua 70,000 malaikat dan bidadari dan wanita itu akan dimandikan di dalam syurga dan menunggu kedatangan suaminya dengan menunggang kuda yang diperbuat daripada permata yakut.

13. Semua orang akan dipanggil untuk melihat wajah Allah di akhirat, tetapi Allah akan datang sendiri kepada wanita yang memberati auratnya iaitu memakai purdah di dunia ini dengan istiqamah. Dunia ini adalah perhiasan dan sebaik-baik perhiasan ialah wanita (isteri) yang solehah.

14. Salah satu tanda keberkatan wanita itu ialah cepat perkahwinannya, cepat pula kehamilannya dan ringan pula maharnya (mas kahwin).

15. “Sebaik-baik wanita ialah wanita (isteri) yang apabila engkau memandang kepadanya ia menggembirakan kamu, jika engkau memerintahnya ia mentaati perintah tersebut dan jika engkau bermusafir dia menjaga harta engkau dan dirinya.” 
Maksud hadis: Dunia yang paling aku sukai ialah wanita solehah.

Lelaki Dayus

BILA LELAKI MENJADI DAYUS?

Secara mudahnya cuba kita lihat betapa ramainya lelaki akan menjadi DAYUS apabila :-

1) Membiarkan kecantikan aurat, bentuk tubuh isterinya dinikmati oleh lelaki lain sepanjang waktu pejabat (jika bekerja) atau di luar rumah.

2) Membiarkan isterinya balik lewat dari kerja yang tidak diketahui bersama dengan lelaki apa dan siapa, serta apa yang dibuatnya di pejabat dan siapa yang menghantar.

3) Membiarkan aurat isterinya dan anak perempuannya dewasanya terlihat (terselak kain) semasa menaiki motor atau apa jua kenderaan sepanjang yang menyebabkan aurat terlihat.

4) Membiarkan anak perempuannya ber’dating’ dengan tunangnya atau teman lelaki bukan mahramnya.

5) Membiarkan anak perempuan berdua-duaan dengan pasangannya di rumah kononnya ibu bapa ‘spoting’ yang memahami.

6) Menyuruh, mengarahkan dan berbangga dengan anak perempuan dan isteri memakai pakaian yang seksi di luar rumah.

7) Membiarkan anak perempuannya memasuki akademi fantasia, mentor, gang starz dan lain-lain yang sepertinya sehingga mempamerkan kecantikan kepada jutaan manusia bukan mahram.

8) Membiarkan isterinya atau anaknya menjadi pelakon dan berpelukan dengan lelaki lain, kononnya atas dasar seni dan lakonan semata-mata. Adakah semasa berlakon nafsu seorang lelaki di hilangkan?. Tidak sekali-sekali.

9) Membiarkan isteri kerja dan keluar rumah tanpa menutup aurat dengan sempurna.

10) Membiarkan isteri disentuh anggota tubuhnya oleh lelaki lain tanpa sebab yang diiktoraf oleh Islam seperti menyelematkannya dari lemas dan yang sepertinya.

11) Membiarkan isterinya bersalin dengan dibidani oleh doktor lelaki tanpa terdesak dan keperluan yang tiada pilihan.

12) Membawa isteri dan anak perempuan untuk dirawati oleh doktor lelaki sedangkan wujudnya klinik dan hospital yang mempunyai doktor wanita.

13) Membiarkan isteri pergi kerja menumpang dengan teman lelaki sepejabat tanpa sebarang cemburu.

14) Membiarkan isteri kerap berdua-duan dengan pemandu kereta lelaki tanpa sebarang pemerhatian.

Terlalu banyak lagi jika ingin saya coretkan di sini. Kedayusan ini hanya akan sabit kepada lelaki jika semua maksiat yang dilakukan oleh isteri atau anaknya secara terbuka dan diketahui olehnya, adapun jika berlaku secara sulit, suami tidaklah bertanggungjawab dan tidak sabit ‘dayus’ kepad dirinya.

Mungkin kita akan berkata dalam hati :-

” Jika demikian, ramainya lelaki dayus di kelilingku”

Lebih penting adalah kita melihat, adakah kita sendiri tergolong dalam salah satu yang disebut tadi.

Awas wahai lelaki beriman..jangan kita termasuk dalam golongan yang berdosa besar ini.

Wahai para isteri dan anak-anak perempuan, jika anda sayangkan suami dan bapa anda, janganlah anda memasukkan mereka dalam kategori DAYUS yang tiada ruang untuk ke syurga Allah SWT.

Sayangilah dirimu dan keluargamu. Jagalah dirimu dan keluargamu dari api neraka.

Akhirnya, wahai para suami dan ayah, pertahankan agama isteri dan keluargamu walau terpaksa bermatian kerananya. Nabi SAW bersabda :

من قتل دون أهله فهو شهيد

Ertinya : “Barangsiapa yang mati dibunuh kerana mempertahankan ahli keluarganya, maka ia adalah mati syahid” ( Riwayat Ahmad , Sohih menurut Syeikh Syuaib Arnout)

Sekian

Oleh; Ust Dr Zaharuddin Abd Rahman

picture of them (:

Assalamualaikum WBT

Hello bestfriends and readers !
Today is the 8th day of Ramadhan . Alhamdulillah . How about your fasting ? Are you fasting today ? Hihi .
It is 9-10 days more before I reach the Ujian Pertengahan Semester - UPS examination day , which will be held on 7-9 August 2012 .

I don't think that I've well-prepared for the up-coming exam . I think I've been so much playing around , not being so serious with my studies . I can't figure out why I'm behaving so heavenly in KMS .
As a student I shouldn't act this way .
I must struggle hard for this up-coming exam , harder for Mama and Ayah , Lillahitaala .

Before I ended this post , as I promised in previous post , today I'll be post some pictures of me and people around me . These pictures weren't my copyrights actually . Hehe .
I took'em from my roommates and classmates , with their PERMISSION (:

*My tutorialmates list of SM3K2T4*The first intake*

*My Roommates*Me , Wani , Anis , Jiha*

*SM3K2T4 *The Pretty and The Handsomes , hehe* first intake*

*p/s: i have tried to rotate it but when upload it here , the picture become like this :(*

*The Pretty*

*Filzah , Me , Raihan , Mimi*

*Me & Amirah*

*Me & Laila*

*Fauzul , Amirah , Me*

*the SM3K2T4's revision night * with second & third intakes*

*KMS's scenery in the morning *picture taken from 2nd or 3rd floor of Bangunan Al-Zarqhani*

*Kolej Matrikulasi Selangor's freelance model, hewhew *

By then , Assalamualaikum WBT . Fi Aman Allah (:

kisah di tempat baru

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

It's been more than a month since I've registered as a student of Kolej Matrikulasi Selangor (KMS) .
It's quite challenging and fun to further my studies here . The excitement of learning somethings new , meeting new friends from different backgrounds with unexpected behaviours made my adrenalin rose .

I was so pleased and praised to Allah for what Allah have gave me .

The chance to face a new phase of life . The chance to change my not-so-good old me . The chance to open my mind to a wider and globalistic thinking mind . The chance to improve what I have learned before . The chance to apply the practises that I'be been taught .

Thank you Allah , Alhamdulillahi Rabbil 'Alamin .

Dear friends , I am trying to improve my English as my MUET (Malaysian English Test) Exam's date is getting closer . My roommates and I are planning to speak in English for the whole day for every weekend . In my tutorial class , our English Panel whom also the classmate suggested to us to have our own Speaking English Day every Tuesday and Thursday starting by next week . Anyone who speak in Bahasa Melayu will be fined RM0.10 . As the treasurer , I have to get ready for the a-lot-of-coming-soon 10 sen(s) (-_-")
Ok , back to the main point for why I'm blogging again after so long I didn't update my blog with best stories about my life . By the way , I am telling you first that my English might be like "English Language + Bahasa Melayu = Rojak Language" . hihihi :')
Well , right now , I feel to typedown in Bahasa Melayu pula . hehehe .

ok , next time i'll update my new life's stories , whenever i have time for blogging .

A lot of love from me to you , mmmuuah <3 ;POk , let story-story ;

Hari pendaftaran , Alhamdulillah segalanya berjalan lancar . Saya di tempatkan di Asrama Vega tingkat dua , asrama paling hujung sekali sebab baru siap , serius rasa terpencil . Satu bilik ada 4 orang sepatutnya , tapi yg masuk baru 3 orang termasuk saya . So, saya assume roommate lg seorang tu mungkin pelajar PDT Sem 3 (Senior) .

Pada miggu pertama di KMS , saya menghadapi orientasi selama seminggu . Pelajar2 dibahagikan mengikut Jurusan , Modul , Kuliah dan akhir sekali Tutorial . Berkenalan dengan rakan sekelas baru . Majoriti pelajar KMS adalah Terengganu , begitu juga kelas saya . Huhu .

Pada malam terakhir orientasi , kami budak-budak perempuan kena denda dengan fasilitator2 yg merupakan senior PST . Hal ini berlaku gara-gara sesetengah budak perempuan yg kurang ajar dengan mereka dan kepada segelintir orang yg lebih tua . Serius mulut budak kurang ajar tu mcm puaka sebab keluarkan ayat yg paling minta kaki terhadap makcik-makcik cleaner .

Minggu kedua di KMS , 4Jun , hari pertama P&P saya di KMS . Teruja juga la . Tapi sepanjang minggu ni , lebih kpd proses berkenalan dgn para pensyarah . Jam kedua atau mungkin yg ketiga , ada pensyarah yg sudah mulakan pengajaran dengan imbas semula subjek2 yg pernah dipelajari sewaktu Tingkatan 4& 5 . Dan roommate yg keempat pun dah check-in . So lengkap la bilik kami . Huhu. Memang PDT , tapi Sem 1 , sebaya kami (:

Next time Insya-Allah , I'll upload the picture(s) of us (:

Till then , Assalamualaikum WBT . Fi Aman Allah

the first day

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Yes , it was me in the picture above . Sorry for the blur image i posted here as i was in car on my way to Kolej Matrikulasi Selangor at Mukim Jugra , Banting for new students' registration .

Yes, i succeed to continue my studies at Kolej Matrikulasi in the One-Year Program of Science Stream .

Although I am quite sad / frustrated for did not get to continue my studies at any IPTAs , I believed that there are miracle(s) , or in other word , "hikmah" for what Allah have and haven't gave me .

Me and my family arrived at Pekan Banting at around 8 o'clock in the morning . We have our breakfast at somewhere here .

Then , after breakfast , we reached our destination at around 8.30 a.m . 

Then , have to que in a very long line . Damn , what a really really  long line ! But , Alhamdulillah it does not take a long time to finish all those registration thingy .

Oh , forgot to tell ya . One of my bestfriends , Lieyna Rashid and my male neighbour, Afiq Yusoff was also in the same collegeu with me ! :D

But the sad thing was that Lieyna ended at the other room in the different block ! huuuu ~

Ok , guy / girl , let me show ya my room . But i'm going to show you my "mini bedroom" only , and not the whole room because i have to think about others' privacy . There are 4 students in each room , with bathroom at the outside of the room . I though the room will have bathroom inside it , sigh ! Hahaha . 

Right now there are only 3 of us have checked in to our room . So , I am guessing that the other one might be our senior , the Two-Year Programme student of Semester3.

Jeng Jeng Jeng :

*So , this is my bed . Of course I can't leave my teddy bear , hihi . Ouh , and I also bring along a new fellow , a giraffe doll , a present gave by Syazni :)

* This is the locker . I thought it would be a kind of locker that made of wood .

* and my studytable .

ok , next time i'll update my new life's stories , whenever i have time for blogging .

A lot of love from me to you , mmmuuah <3 ;P

Away to New Place

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Dupdap dupdap !
The heartbeat is getting faster . Both excited and nervous feelings mixed .
Tomorrow going to be the day which I am going to have a very-very new life in a new place with new friends-to-be , miles away from my home .
So far for me although others felt not .
A lot of my lovers i have to leave , so that I could build a brighter future for me to make them smile and proud of me .

So , the clothes , the shower things , the shoes , ouh what i want to say is everything needed , I have packed'em up . So , just have to wait for tomorrow :)

the shoes . . .

thingy . . . 

jeng jeng jengg  . . .

Hello Kitty , i love u

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

 is back ! Hahaha . . .

Yes , it has been a very long time i did not update my blog , for months !
Now i am back . Yeah baby ! Lets rock n roll dude ! Hehehe ..

Actually , there are a lot of stories i want to tell ya here but i didn't have much time to do so . I do admit that i always spending my time for Facebook-ing . But i need to spend a longer time for Blogging . huhu ..

About the "a lot of stories" to tell , i tell ya next time ..

The first reason that cause me to blogging again is the awesome cutie Hello Kitty ..
Yes , it is !

Now , i want to tell you about the Hello Kittyand promoting her to you too !!  ;


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