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Yes, i cried a lot last week. Because a lot of people. For a lot of reasons. For a few days.
It has been such a long time since i cried all out of my heart , in front of the others.
It such a shame for me to cry in front of 'em, but it so hard to resist the tears.
Since then, i have been more awaken to know,
Who are friends, and who are foes.
It is easier to find a lot of 'teman ketawa' instead of 'teman menangis'.
it is easier to find 'kawan-gelak-bila-kita-jatuh' instead of 'teman-hulur-tangan-bila-kita-jatuh'.
It is easier to find friends whom is 'mulut-manis-tapi-kuat-kutuk-belakang' instead of friends whom is 'mulut-marah-tapi-hati-sayang'.
Real friends are not defined as what those famous quotes really define.
Real friends are defined by the heart of the beholder.
And as for me, real friends are really-really difficult to be found. But once you do, please do appreciate them.
This isn't about satisfying my need and want of what type of friends that suit my character and personality. I do judge. You do judge. We do judge.
Everyone do judge for whatever happening around me, you, us, them.
And i've tried my best not to judge emotionally and irrational like i used before. I tried my best to show someone that i do understand their feeling though i never been in his/her shoes.
I just want someone(s), i don't care whoever they are - my parents, family, fiance, best friends, classmates, roommates or even random people (stranger?) to ask me and understand my situation. I hate it when people just judge me and directly assume without asking me of my condition, my situation, my reason of action(s) i've done.
YES, you are allowed to judge, to give opinions and advises but please, do ask before you finalizing your statement of me.
To conclude, i just wanted my readers to, please
understand people around you.
Well fella, this is life.
To get what you want, you must LOVE what you don't. This experience as one of many other experiences to be experienced just gonna make you
stronger and even better person !
"Frst to understand, then to be understood.
What you say could make or break the case, just with a couple of words."
- Sean Covey, "7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens" -
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This post is accredited to :
MY PARENTS, AHMAD SOWHINI & RUBIAH - for keeping me safe & sound & warm though i might be the evil-est child both of you ever have. Thank you for the advises, the argues, the punishments, the compliments, the nagging and many more. There are too much to list out. Thank you's are not enough to describe my gratefulness. May Allah grant Jannah to you.
MY FIANCE, HAPISMUDDIN - for being the friendliest and loveliest 'stranger' i ever known and fall in love to. For taking good care of me though my father never ask you to do so (haha). Thank you for being my lover and best friend of the time when i laugh and i cry. Thank you for being there when i feel like i need someone the most.
MY SILAT PARTNERS :
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| from left : Kak Tim, Kak Iklima, Kak Ainil & me |
KAK TIM - for being straightforward with me (and everyone too actually). I am sorry for not being good partner of yours & thank you for treating me so nice. It was my pleasure to meet someone awesome like you. Thank you too, for sometimes entertaining your friends (hehe)
KAK IKLIMA - for being a friend that 'tegur depan-depan dengan muka marah & suara tinggi, sebenarnya sebab dalam hati sayang sangat.' Thank you for the advises, the angers, the laughs, the tears, the happy moments, the sad moments that you willingly to share with me. Thank you, for a lot of things.
Kak AINIL - for being a good listener but never let me stray with my emotions by not agreeing with what-so-ever i complaint to you. For speaking the truth and honestly. Thank you for making me believe, that, there is at least someone on this Earth that i can really trust.
THANK YOU,
I LOVE YOU.
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